Do you find yourself obsessed with food and weight? To the point that you cannot really focus on your work, be present with your friends or enjoy your favorite hobbies? This is the insidious nature of food and weight obsessions – they rob you of your life and soul. All you can do is think about how much you ate, how much exercise you need to fo to burn it off, what your next diet is going to be and how to avoid being around people so that you can either binge or starve.
It is a sad way to live, but fortunately you CAN beat your food and weight obsession. The first thing to realize is that it is the dieting, restricting and overthinking about food and weight that is the real cause. Giving up diets is a great start to get rid of the obesssions and free your mind for more positive things.
I am grateful to have been freed of the obsession with my weight and food for 4 years. I wish everyone the same freedom. Here are the things that I will be doing this month instead of obsessing about food and weight.
- Feeding my puppy
- Playing with my puppy
- Going to a play
- Writing
- Going to yoga
- Going to my support group
- Doing a new guided meditation
- Reading a book on the Bhadgivad Gita
- Cleaning the apartment
- Calling friends
- Returning business calls
- Planning a holiday
- Drinking a smoothie after yoga
- Emailing my Mother
- Calling my friends overseas
- Watching the morning news
- Booking a facial
- Reading positive blogs
- Drinking coffee with milk and sugar
- Reaching out to fellow online bloggers
- Reading a friends’ manuscript
- Reviewing my brothers web site
- Going to dinner with friends
- Watching a movie with my boyfriend
- Going to a Christmas Party
- Signing up for a yoga workshop
- Going to Brunch with a friend
- Working affirmations journal
- Recording a live interview on a Healthy Place
- Writing a guest post
- Seeing friends from out of town
- Listening to A New Earth on my Ipod
- Writing a short free ebook on my Intuitive Eating Experience
- Posting a guest blog on a Voice in Recovery
- Guest blogging about my story on PsychCentral
- Admiring beautiful art by Jessica Ward
- Writing a letter of recommendation for a friend
- Responding to emails about eating disorder recovery
- Buying new curtains
- Setting up new shelves
- Calling a friend to do a morning reading meditation
- getting a manicure and pedicure
- going for acupuncture
- Working on my book
- Responding to emails from people who want eating disorder help
- Writing posts for my new site
- Going to dinner with girlfriends
- Going shopping with a friend
- Taking pictures of new things I want to buy for my apartment
- Making an interior decorating scrapbook
- Printing off pictures and putting them in frames
- Buying a plant
- Doing creative writing exercises
- Calling my mother on Skype
- Calling my best friend on Skype
- Doing creative visualization exercises
- Meditating
- Writing goal statements
- Shopping for a new scarf
- Reaching out for help when I need it
- Redecorating my apartment
- Taking beautiful pictures of New York
- Going to see a movie
- Downloading some great music
- Reading awesome books on spiritual growth
- Sending messages to friends around the world on facebook
- Planning a trip to Australia
- Organizing my work
- Creating a dream board
- Creating a daily work list
- Coming up with creative promotional ideas for a web site
- Visiting thrift shops for new household items and furniture
- Writing morning pages
- Networking with other bloggers
- Sending inspiring twitter messages
- Reading amazing personal development blogs the change blogXX
- Catching up on Twitter
- Working on writing my goals
- Practicing affirmations
- Taking a bath
- Going to the local steam and sauna
- Buying a gift for a friend
- praying for others and their success
- Reading the 7 spiritual laws of success
- Reading Social media optimization books
- Listening to downloaded Steve Pavlina podcasts
- Listening to Buddhist meditations
- setting up my new home office
- Creating a logo for my site
- Enjoying the snow in New York
- Walking around my beautiful neighborhood
- Writing and emailing a daily gratitude list to my friend
- Buying lavender
- Trying a new restaurant
- Getting a long massage
- Creating a collage to let go of a certain part of my life
- Creating a collage for a new life vision
- reaching out to help others as much as possible
- Loving myself
- Eating all the things that I love, when I feel like it!
If you truly want to end the war with your food and weight obsessions, you can get help. Here are some articles that can help you get started:
Eating Disorder Recovery is All in Your Mind
Treating Eating Disorders – How I Finally Recovered










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What a fantastic post! I’m going to go make my own list!
Thanks Alex!
It really helps and get the focus on gratitude.
Thanks for stopping by!
Nina
@bingeeatingtherapy – I love your top 101 things to do as well – awesome!!
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